Speaking

Emi Nietfeld is an energetic, in-demand keynote speaker. Her message — finding the true meaning of resilience — resonates with students, educators, (mental) health care professionals, and women in business and technology.

Selected Presentations

The True Meaning of Resilience - Independent Educational Consultants Association, Family Focused Treatment Association, St. Mary’s College of California, Lafayette Library Distinguished Speaker Series, Brooklyn Library, Roots and Wings Author Lunch, Green Chimneys

Emi Nietfeld rejects the easy label of an “overcomer.” Even though she kept her dreams alive against the odds and attended a top college, she knows it wasn’t solely due to resilience: success required luck, privilege, and support. In this passionate talk, Emi asks her audiences to throw away the American fantasy that poverty, illness, or any other adversity can be conquered through sheer grit and bootstrapping ingenuity. Drawing on the research about what truly inspires resilience, Emi urges us to shift our focus from encouraging “resilience” and instead address the underlying social problems and provide individuals the support they need to persevere.

Trauma Informed Reporting - University of Southern California Center for Health Journalism, Los Angeles Times Festival of Books

How should journalists report on vulnerable populations? What traps do we often fall into and how can we avoid them? Drawing on both lived experience and professional expertise, this talk or workshop is for journalists, writers, editors, students — or anyone tasked with interviewing those who’ve endured hardship.

From College Essay to Published Book - Foster America, Girls Write Now

Every teen has a story to tell — but how? Emi Nietfeld takes young people behind the curtain of publishing when you have no connections and no special knowledge. In this talk or interactive workshop, Emi breaks down the process and the stepping stones along the way to inspire and empower young audience.

Bridging Engineering and Creativity - Harvard University

When Emi Nietfeld entered Harvard, she had a passion for writing and literature, but needed a career that could lift her out of poverty and debt. So she majored in computer science. Now, a successful writer and software engineer, she proves that “passion versus money” is a false binary—and a classist one. In her relatable talks, Emi Nietfeld encourages students that it is possible to follow your dreams outside of a career. Emi shares her personal journey to becoming an author, and how she’s balanced it with her full time “day job.”

Navigating Mental Health in Adulthood - Porterville College

As a teenager who struggled with depression, anxiety, and an eating disorder, Emi Nietfeld often found herself struggling to hide a taboo subject from admissions committees and employers. In reality, no one is entering college—or the workplace—and leaving their identity behind. In this talk, Nietfeld shares lessons from her mental health journey, with practical lessons on how students and young professionals can address their emotional well-being as they navigate higher education and begin their careers. This talk can also be adapted for higher education administration and faculty who want to better understand how to overcome stigma in the application process for incoming students.

Sample Appearances

Testimonials

  • Our students are tired of the status quo and Emi's self awareness and honesty are exactly what they need as they move on to the next chapter in their lives. These students have been applauded for resiliency without administration realizing how it is their very actions that make it so hard for our students to achieve success.

    — Amaury Avalos, St. Mary’s College

  • I’m a Court Appointed Special Advocate and I brought one of the foster youth I work with to Emi’s event. She was over the moon inspired after hearing Emi’s story. I know whether it’s today, tomorrow or next year, Emi has made an impact on her and her life.

    — Lafayette Distinguished Speaker Series

  • Emi was a super insightful speaker - I really appreciated her perspectives on mental health and resilience. The talk pushed me to reflect and interrogate the way I approach the idea of "productivity" in my life.

    — Vicki Xu, Harvard Women in Computer Science

  • Today Emi spoke to our memoir book group and I have received a text from every member telling me how grateful they are for her wisdom and candor. We want her to come back! She is not only brilliant and generous, she's fun and encouraging. She gave us so much to mull over and consider. Highly recommend it!

    — Alyson Shelton, Author

  • Emi Nietfeld did such a beautiful job presenting the book and answering questions. She is so confident and gracious and an absolute pleasure to host.

    — Book Passage

  • When Emi Nietfeld recently addressed our memoir class, she warmed our hearts and raised our sights with her intelligence, generosity, candor, and helpful advice. Emi is a gem of a person, and her work has already helped me move the needle forward in my own writing.

    — Kelly Morgan, Writing Teacher

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